Have you established an online connection with a hot trans woman and feel ready for the next step. A real-life in-person date. For some, making this leap from laptop longing to the possibility of real intimacy can be confusing and scary. Let me give you trans admirers a few tips that will help you in the dating game.
Plan the Date
First thing to know about planning dates is: it’s up to the man. Sorry, fellas, but this may seem old-fashioned, but it’s just the way it works. If you want to impress a trans woman, then putting the time in to make your first date memorable is worth that effort. If you don’t stand apart you’ll be spending a lot of the time only dreaming of spending time with a t-girl.
Make an Effort
Asking a woman to meet you at your local bar isn’t planning a date. A lot of guys do this (this dating faux-pas includes the coffee shop). Boring! And don’t be lazy about where you’re willing to go for a date; effort might mean a little travel distance, and this tells a lady she’s worth it.
Focus on Her
Sure, you might love going to the ball game or the local trivia night at your pub, but unless you know she shares a specific interest of yours, plan your date around hers. Hopefully, you’ve read her online profile multiple times to know what kinds of things she likes to do in her spare time, her passions. Be creative.
Treat the Lady
There’s a lot of mixed opinions on the matter of paying for dates, but one thing is for sure: a man should always pay for the first date. It’s the gentlemanly thing to do and what separates a date from just hanging out with a buddy. If you don’t have oodles of cash to throw around, there are many fun dates that are inexpensive.
Check the Mirror
This should go without saying, but some men put comfort way too far above fashion. A woman wants to see you’ve thought about your look; she doesn’t want to think you just rolled out of bed or came running from a six-hour Xbox marathon. And don’t forget the hygiene side of things, showering and manscaping.
I hope these tips will help you to plan and feel confident on a date with a trans lady. Oh, and never arrive late!
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