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Where to Meet Transexuals

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Looking everywhere to meet local transexuals and coming up empty?

The simple answer to the question “Where can I meet a transexual?” is this: anywhere you find all women. Why? Because trans women are just like other women who may enjoy eating out, shopping, or hanging out at coffee shops and bars. Hell, you may have come upon a transexual-of-your-dreams more than once and had no idea because some trans women are especially hard to spot.

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Before I go into the list of places to meet a TS, I want to make sure you understand the following: trans women typically don’t like “tranny chasers”. This may seem confusing because who wouldn’t like the people who adore them the most?! But what this boils down to is having the right intentions.

Trans women do not want to be approached by a guy simply because of their gender or their pre-op “secret”. They don’t care about your interest if it’s a novelty they provide, or if it has anything to do with the shemale porn you watched at home. A trans woman is a WOMAN, and like ANY woman, would like to know that you’re interested because you’re attracted to HER and the complete, unique person who she is.

Imagine this scenario: a woman gets hit on by a guy at the bar, and when he strikes out the woman sees him simply move onto the girl at the next barstool. That’s when she realizes that he’s not interested in her specifically but that any woman will do. Avoid making this mistake, and you’ll be elevated in her eyes from the get go.

So where are all the transexuals at? Well, if you haven’t found them or recognized them, among the general populous, try these suggestions:

GLBTT Friendly Places

Search for locations in your city that are trans-friendly and friendly to the gay and lesbian communities in general. I did a google search and through pages on “answer sites” and forums I found all sorts of recommendations for various places on and offline that were specific to my city. Ask and thou shalt receive! And don’t just focus on nightclubs because there are likely coffee shops or other places to hang out, particularly in your city’s GLBTT neightborhood.

Online Groups for Trans People and Their Supporters

Many of the recommendations I found for people seeking to meet trans people led to online groups. You can also search for transexual interest groups on Yahoo or even on Facebook. But remember, if you’re looking to actually meet up with someone, be sure to always search for groups that are for your specific city or the nearest large city.

Transexual Clubs and Gay Bars

Not every city is going to have a dedicated club for transexuals but they do exist. Ask people in the trans groups you joined or throw the question out on a forum for tgirls and their admirers. As for the gay bar, yes, I know you’re not gay, but in many towns that is the closest you’re going to get to finding a place where transexuals are comfortable and willing to talk to you when approached. Ask if any of the gay bars have a drag night as that is going to be a better bet.

Transexual Dating Sites

This is by far the easiest way for you to meet a local transexual. You don’t have to guess who is and who isn’t trans, or wonder if they’re even looking to hook up or to start a relationship. There are thousands of trans profiles, and all you need to do is push a button and write your message. And for those of you who think a paid dating site like TSmeet.com is too expensive, think of it this way: every time you go to a bar looking to pick up, it costs you much more than 20 bucks a month. Online dating – way more bang for your buck!

View our list of recommended Transexual dating sites here.

Craigslist

I don’t want to, but I have to throw this one out there. Craigslist has long been used to meet new people, especially by those seeking something quick and dirty. Go ahead and take a look but always be on the lookout for scams. In this particular instance, you’re going to find e$corts and people offering all sorts of “services” that are probably too good to be true. If you want to check it out, go to the craigslist page for your town, go to personals, and then click on t4m.

Good luck and remember, don’t wait for that sexy TS to approach you. While the internet would have us believe that all transexuals are man-eaters, the truth is that trans women love it when you make the first move. So don’t make her come to you – make her feel like the lady she is.

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janedon1

For practice a lot of us Gurls go out dressed to a mall or grocery store and places that we can feel safe. You see us, talk to us. If you say nothing like young teenage boys at a dance, you get nothing – the same as those boys.

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Stephen Welichko

Hi, I’m out here in Howell, MI. I am looking for the ever so hard to find and purchase the I Heart TS bumper stickers for my wheelchairs. I get the I Heart TS newsletter twice a month (I love the articles… keeps me informed) but can never find the stickers.

jane don

Some good advice, but sometimes a Gurl IS just interested in the closeness of sex. Being “picked up” can be fun sometimes. Sometimes when out I’m more passable than other times. I often notice guys checking me out, but I’m never really sure if that’s good or bad (so I’m afraid of approaching them.) Are there “tricks” to know if a man is approachable?

Holly

Hi Jane. Thank you for all your thoughtful comments on our posts. I’ve shared this comment with one of our writers to respond to in a post that will be published later this month!

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