Want to shed the tranny chaser label?
Don’t want to be lumped in with the guys who only want her for her transgenderism? Then don’t be one of those guys. Prove that you’re different and worthy of her attentions because you:
Are supportive or her and would stick up for her in any situation, in front of anyone.
First of all, this means you’re open to your friends and family about your relationship, because you know there is no shame in dating a transwoman. Secondly, it means you will stick up for her if she is facing any kind of prejudice from others. You support her in her endeavors, and support her in her transition if she is undergoing one. Her journey is a difficult one, and your support is essential to making her feel truly loved.
Read: Introducing your TS Girlfriend to your Family and Friends
Educate yourself on trans issues and try to understand her struggles.
You will never be able to fully understand what she’s going through but you can certainly TRY. You don’t have to use her as your sole source of information because although many TS women will be happy to educate you, not everyone you date will want to be discussing every little detail. There’s LOTS of information out there for you. You can join a forum for transgender people and their supporters, check out local meetings, read as much as you can online on everything from transitioning to the psychology to the politics surrounding transexualism.
Read: How to Support the Transgender Community
Treat her as much more than just a sex-object.
This one is big. Transwomen do not want to be desired because they are pre-op and still have a penis or because they are somehow considered sexually exotic. At that point they feel like their transgenderism is a fetish for you and any TS will do. Treat her as a WOMAN, nothing more and nothing less. Sure, you find her sexy, but that should not be the extent of your interest if you truly desire a relationship or wish to be taken seriously as an admirer.
Read: Is Attraction To Transexuals a Fetish or a Lifestyle?
Enjoy her for who she is as a person, and treat her with the utmost respect.
No one wants to be desired for their “assets” alone, and no one deserves to be treated without respect for the person they are, especially by a man who is showing interest. Do yourself and the lady a favor and behave like a true gentleman. It will impress her and you will stand out from the rest. Read Treat Her Like a Lady for tips on getting this one right.
Not sure what’s wrong with being a tranny chaser in the first place? Read my posts: The Tranny Chaser Dilemma and Transexuals: The Best Of Both Worlds?
I hope these tips will help you in meeting and connecting with transexual women, in a way that truly satisfies everyone involved. Best wishes!
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