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The Truth About TS Dating Sites


If you’ve tried more than one online dating site then you’ve already learned that not all sites are created equal. The quality of both the features and members can vary widely. When you strike out at a TS online dating site, it could just be that you chose the wrong one and would find success elsewhere…

I’m not going to mention any specific sites. (If you want to know which sites I’m talking about we can discuss in the comments.) I just want to talk about WHY so many of these sites suck.

The best TS dating sites started building up a database of members long ago, don’t use any fake profiles, and do enough marketing to have an excellent number of active users who actually want to date. There are very few of these, but the one’s that exist are very worthwhile.

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Other TS sites were built by companies that mainly produce and market porn, as a kind of add-on or up-sell for their porn traffic. But you can’t create a community out of nowhere, so many of these sites contain fake transexual profiles to lure guys into signing up.  You’re obviously not going to do well here… basically just hanging out with a bunch of other guys.

Yet another type would be what appears to be a free TS dating site. Free? Great! Except many of these sites are actually an escort directory. If that’s not what you’re looking for, then beware because it’s not always obvious. They don’t turn away the transexual escorts because they need to fill their database. They make their money from advertising and sometimes even charging the TS escorts to have a listing.

So now, instead of paying that 30 bucks a month to meet transwomen who are looking for dates, you’re paying much more than that for sexual encounters and you still don’t have your TS girlfriend.

My advice is to choose wisely. Read reviews and use the free account option on some of the paid sites. Even though you can’t message without upgrading, you can take a look around and see how many transgender profiles they have near you. Some sites are going to be better in particular countries, some are on an international level. The best thing you can do is check it out for yourself before committing.

Read also: TS Dating Scams To Avoid

Do you have a favorite TS dating site?  What works for you?

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  1. Lexie

    April 6, 2014 at 8:14 am

    I started my transition at 13 and though I am single at 45 I have never met a real man on ANY dating site, to me they are a waste of time and money.
    The men I have met are out in the real world not on a dating site.
    If you are meant to meet someone you will meet them at a store, the mall or some other place. I do not drink so I do not go to bars so I am also ruling bars out.
    To be honest at my age I am not sure if I even interested in a relationship except for a casual one and I have no problem finding men out there in the real world for that.

    • Lola Page

      Lola Page

      April 6, 2014 at 8:11 pm

      Lexie, thanks so much for your feedback!

      I agree that dating sites aren’t for everyone, and I don’t think they should be used instead of ‘real life’ dating, but as an additional means of meeting people, especially for people with limited social opportunities. I’ve found quite a few relationships online myself, although none of them has worked out long term. Sometimes I blame it on the fact that we met online but who knows? Anyway, thanks again for chiming in. We love hearing about our reader’s experiences.

      • Lexie

        April 7, 2014 at 6:07 am

        Even though I have had plenty of chances for a LTR I choose not to and the men I have found on the dating sites are for the most part married I will not get into the middle of that because in the end everyone get hurt. I have more than enough guys trying to pick me up when I am out and around and so I see no need for dating sites.

        • Lola Page

          Lola Page

          April 11, 2014 at 3:14 pm

          If you have no need for dating sites then that’s great! I wish I could avoid them but sometimes I just get tired of waiting for something to happen and go online to try and take matters into my own hands, so to speak.

          As for all the married men on dating sites – ARGH! What’s up with those guys? I wish they would stick to the sites made just for married people.

          • Lexie

            April 11, 2014 at 5:27 pm

            I guess I am one of those women who has no need for a LTR, maybe I so set in my ways that I am no longer willing to change for another person any changes that occur are for me not for someone else. I have seen far to many women who feel they can take a bad boy and “domesticate” him and 99% of the time it ends in failure. I have also seen to many women get involved with “control freaks” and in many cases the woman ends up beaten to a pulp or dead. No I will stick to caring and loving my pet she just loves me, does not judge me, does not hurt me and is there for me.
            Now about married men……we are like forbidden fruit something they want to try but rarely ever stick with and if the “wife” finds out then the “gates of hell” are usually opened.
            That is why I will never get involved with a married male, no way, no how so I will stick to the occasional “roll in the hay” and leave it at that.

          • Lola Page

            Lola Page

            April 17, 2014 at 12:07 pm

            Wow, I totally relate to most of this, even the part about pets. My kitty cat has been the best companion I’ve ever had! 🙂

            As for changing oneself for a LTR, I’m not down with that either. I do have longish term relationships but I wouldn’t date anyone who wanted me to change, and conversely I don’t date anyone who I would need to change in order for them to be acceptable to ME. So yeah, no bad boys.. changing someone is a losing battle and really, what’s the point? In my experience the control freaks are the worst because they often hide the fact in the beginning. Devious!

            Sounds like you know yourself well, and know what you want and don’t want. That in itself is something to be proud of. I am nearing 40 myself and wonder if the rest of my life might be happiest doing my own thing just as you are and giving up this idea of finding “the one”.

          • Lexie

            April 18, 2014 at 2:19 pm

            I could not agree more I have a cat also and when I am petting her, reading to her I see the love in her eyes, she loves me as much as I love her and that is without boundaries.
            Though I am not looking for a LTR and the odds of meeting Mr. Right are very low if I did meet him then I would take it slow and easy to see where it goes. He would have to court me not date me, he would have to know that I am a Woman a 100% Woman. I also know I am not going to meet him on a dating site or at a bar if I ever do meet Mr. Right it will be in a store, the mall, the flea market some place like that. In the mean time I have my cat who I see as my daughter. We are more than a team we are family.
            You are getting ready to enter the greatest time of your life this to me is when you shed off the skin of youth and enter true Womanhood and believe this there are so many older men who will want you because you are no longer a “girl” you are a Woman.
            Best Wishes

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