Some of you are looking for love, but many of you are enjoying a casual-dating lifestyle made possible through online dating.
When online dating was in its infancy, there were but a few mainstream sites to choose from. Now, an incredible network includes niche sites that make finding a specific type of relationship a reality. This reality includes connecting trans admirers with trans women for everything from hookups to long-term love.
As great as casual sex and dating is, sometimes those involved become too casual, and respect slips through the cracks.
3 Reasons to Be Discreet about Casual Sex
1. Discretion Protects Your Reputation
There’s nothing worse than a guy with loose lips. It’s a real turn off for women, and when word gets around the trans community that you like to kiss and talk, your chances of finding another date will diminish. Even if it’s just a one-off to satisfy some kind of fetish, be respectful like you would any woman, and keep the particulars to yourself.
2. Discretion Protects Her Privacy
Trans women have a lot of crap to put up with, and they don’t need an extra layer from someone they are trying to make a connection with. We all like to share our dating experiences, good and bad, but it’s important (especially for safety reasons) to protect a trans woman’s identity and privacy.
3. Discretion Protects What Could Be, Between You
You might just be thinking one and done when you plan to meet up with a sexy trans woman you’ve met online, but what if there’s a real connection—potential for a friends-with-benefits arrangement, or more still. If you start telling everyone about your hookup, or brag about your sexual conquest, you may be jeopardizing those possibilities.
I apologize for the cranky tone, but I’ve had a few bad experiences with dating discretion. If you have too, please share in the comments!