If you want to meet women for casual sex, your best bet will always be online dating. Sure, there’s a small chance the cute t-girl who uses the same laundromat might find you sexy and ask for your number… but let’s be honest, grocery stores and public spaces just aren’t hookup friendly.
When women I know want no-strings fun, myself included, we log on to our preferred dating site. Some of us use different niche sites for different interests such as BDSMdate.com or PolyamoryDate.com. Mainstream sites work fine for the vanilla-monogamous crowd, but if you’re a trans admirer, you’ll have better luck using a niche site like TSmeet.com.
After you join a dating site, it’s up to you to put in the necessary effort. This means writing a kick-ass profile that makes your uniqueness shine through. So many guys are lazy when it comes to writing a profile, and this is in part because they have no issue sending a first message to a woman after just looking at her picture… such bravado!
This cockiness won’t get you far, because a trans woman is looking to see that you’ve read her entire profile and have written a personal message that explains why you think you would be a good fit.
And no form letters please. These are those cut-and-paste “Hi beautiful, want to meet sometime?” messages. Again, this is an obvious sign that you’re just looking for the fast track to sex.
It’s okay to want to keep the sex casual. That’s something you can state in your profile, but even casual gals need a bit of wooing—a thoughtful message (that will garner you a reply) followed by a fun date. And if you play your cards right, you may just find a friend with benefits.
So go check out some of the dating sites that I’ve mentioned to see the features offered in their membership packages. Yes, there is a fee, but it beats hanging around clubs and bars, spending money on yourself and drinks for ladies who aren’t really interested.
Women are on dating sites to meet men… it’s that simple!