Have you been kicking the tires online, hemming and hawing about sending a message to a trans woman you hope to date or hook up with? The new year is upon us, and it’s time to make your move.
Now is a good time to make your dating dreams come true and meet a beautiful ts lady. If you’ve never tried online dating or are new to the game, it can feel like finding, yes, a needle in a haystack. So let’s get bailing hay to make things a little easier.
Online Dating Resolutions
- Join a niche dating site. These specialized sites, like BDSMdate.com for kinky encounters or TSmeet.com for trans dating, are the go-to for people who are not within the mainstream market.
- Write a stand-out profile. If you already have a dating profile, might I suggest starting over, or at the very least refreshing your profile. Have a read through some profiles of men your age to see who your competition is.
- Write personal thoughtful first messages. I know it’s hard to resist the temptation to send a “Hi beautiful!” the moment you see a sexy trans woman’s profile pic, but please refrain until you’ve read her entire profile, which will help you write something with a personal touch.
- Broaden your search. Many people choose a narrow age range, a specific body type, or an area within a short distance of themselves. Cast a wider net, and be open to women who fall outside of your usual type.
- Plan unique dates. Forget the coffee shop or bar for first dates. Go online and find out what’s happening in your city or town. A movie at the drive-in, a guided hike, or a horse-drawn sleigh ride are way more likely to impress and land you a second date.
- Educate and advocate. A trans woman won’t expect you to know everything she’s going through or to be out marching in the streets, but possessing some knowledge around trans issues will reassure her that your interest isn’t just a fetish.
- Be a gentleman always. Treat your date like a lady by making the plans, paying the tab, and being flexible. If the night goes south, say goodnight and wish her the best in finding a suitable match. Remember, putting yourself out there is difficult for everybody.
What dating resolutions are you making? Please share in the comments!