Is your dating profile good enough to land that dream date? Give yourself an edge with my easy profile writing tips!
Recently I wrote about how to write a first message that gets more replies from transwomen on sites such as TSmeet.com. If you followed that advice you are probably getting more of the ladies you are interested in taking the time to check out your profile. However, if you aren’t getting more replies it could mean that it’s your profile that is falling flat.
We all know that you are more than just a two-dimensional dating site profile, but unfortunately that’s all that the local transexuals have to read and look at when deciding if they’d like to get in contact and possibly meet up. Online dating is a bit of a numbers game, and the odds aren’t in your favor with most transexuals having their pick of thousands of local guys looking for some passion. Put yourself ahead of the competition with these tips.
Fill Our Your Profile Completely!
Incomplete profiles are usually a disappointment to anyone stopping by to learn more about you. Make it easy for other members to get a feel for your personality and pick up on shared interests. Answer all the questions on your profile. If t’s up to you to decide what goes in those blank boxes then add a couple paragraphs about what interests you, and what kind of woman you’d like to meet. Don’t let potential dates walk away because they can’t get any kind of a feel for who you are.
Are You Too Specific or Too Generic?
Now this is where it gets a little tricky. If you’re too specific about everything you want you’ll give passersby more reasons to reject you on some small detail. Such is the sad truth of online dating when it becomes more like “man shopping”! So put your best foot forward but keep it light-hearted. As for profiles that are too generic? All I’m asking is that you don’t say things like, “I like all kinds of food and music.” Or “I’m easy-going and just as comfortable in a suit as a pair of jeans.” While those things may be true, they are details that apply to almost everyone. What’s your favorite dinner? What’s the last concert you went to? Give your TS interest something she can relate to or become intrigued by!
More Pictures Bring More Success.
I have heard that the more photos you add, the more attention you’ll get from other members, but it’s also important to choose the right ones. Here’s some good info from Eharmony on which types of pictures in particular have the most impact. Also, this article at Match discusses different strategies relating to how many pictures you post. Time to dig through your Facebook albums or take some new pictures to add to your TS dating profile! And if you’re on a site that offers full nudity like TS Meet? Well, I suggest you add some sexy photos that show your body off, but I would hold off on exposing yourself “fully”. Perhaps upload a more suggestive photo to your private albums on the site and save them for a hot lady who might request them.
Be positive, be yourself, be honest, be sexy, be romantic, be real, and have fun!
Do you have anything to add to my list? I’d love to hear your own suggestions for attracting more partners online. Please share below!