Transgender admirers and T-porn lovers are overlapping interest groups, but they are not one and the same.
Admirers are interested in dating, sex, and love with transgender women, which often means that the porn they choose features these lovely ladies. But a wide variety of men regularly enjoy trans pornography, even those who are happily married to cis women, or who have never dated a t-girl.
It’s a bit unfair for trans women, isn’t it, that so many men who don’t date transgender gals want to jack off to hot naked pictures of them.
You will sometimes hear transgender writers or activists—or the girls you’re dating—complaining about this very fact, because it’s not fair that dating is so difficult when countless men are attracted to them but won’t face up to the fact.
When it’s difficult to find a boyfriend for real sex, not video sex, and even harder to find a love connection, transgender women who put up with a lot of crap can find themselves resentful.
On the other hand, the fascinating puzzle of human sexuality and human behavior comes together a bit for you guys. Some trans admirers are confused by their attraction to trans women—”I’m not gay,” you tell yourselves, your families, your friends. “Not that there’s anything wrong with that.l” But it doesn’t fit. Then trans women’s rights activists affirm that you aren’t gay, because trans women are women, period.
Now you know that millions of other men watch t-porn, specifically pre-operative transgender porn, known in the sleazier days as chicks-with-dicks porn. T-porn shown on gay sites gets almost no viewers, but on straight sites she-male porn is more popular than regular porn or kinky bondage porn!
We don’t yet understand the phenomenon of gynandromorphophilia, which is just the fancy word for tranny chaser or, more to my preference, trans admirer. That’s not because it’s something new, but because very few have historically been comfortable discussing, or pursuing, their attraction until recently.
In a sense, you guys are heroes, and leading the way to breaking the shame taboos that hurt transgender women. Very few studies have been done, but from the information we have so far, we know a few things, and have a few more theories.
Transgender stunner Theryn Meyer theorizes about primate evolution in her video “This is Your Brain on Shemale Porn.” Straight men are wired to assess competition, aggression, and sexual-social dynamics by studying the cocks of other men. This “studying” is usually taking place during arousal by present females. It’s only natural, Theryn says, from an evolutionary competition perspective, to be even more aroused by women if there is another cock around.
Psychologists and sex experts also theorize that the appeal of transgender women is about novelty and illicit thrill. When it comes to sex, taboo is so often part of the drive behind arousal.
My transgender friend Candace has her own ideas about her starring role in men’s fantasies. “We don’t get pregnant and we love anal sex,” she says, with her typical brash candor.
No matter what the reasons—which are no doubt all of the above, and more—straight men like you love gorgeous transgender women.
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