How to Make Your Trans Date Feel Secure

Dating can be stressful, especially if it’s your first time meeting after exchanging messages online. But this is how things work these days. More and more people are turning to dating sites to find new lovers or potential long-term mates. And if you love trans women, it’s your best bet.

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You can never fully predict how a date will go, or guarantee yourself a second date, but you can take steps that will increase your odds greatly. Women want to feel secure with a man—emotionally and physically. And if they don’t, there’s really no chance of a hookup. Apart from being a gentleman, let me share a few tips to make her feel safe.

How to Make Your TS Date Feel Secure

Compliment her right away. She’s probably put effort into how she’s presenting herself to you for the first time, so acknowledge something about it. “You look beautiful,” is simple and easy. Or you could point out a small detail about her appearance that you find especially attractive.

Plan the date, but follow her lead. Confident men are not only hot, but they also make women feel secure. T-girls want to know they’re with someone who isn’t afraid to take the reins. That said, allow your date to pace things, or change plans if it would make her more comfortable.

Ask questions. Focus on her throughout the date by asking questions to get to know her better. This is the best way to find out if you are compatible and if there is chemistry. She’ll feel secure in the fact that you are interested in the possibilities.

Pay attention. There’s nothing worse than being asked a question, then watching a date’s eyes follow the hot brunette who just passed by. Actively listen and probe deeper into the topics she seems passionate about.

Follow up after a date. Forget the three-day rule of contacting a woman after a first date. If you had a good time and want to see her again, contact her the next morning with a text that says just that. If you make her wait, you’re just playing games and letting any insecurities she may have fester—not cool.

Make your trans date feel special… and she’ll feel secure.

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