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Your Trans Desire Shouldn’t Be a Dirty Secret

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All the way back in May 2012, I Love TS conducted a poll of our readers entitled Are You Open About Your TS Attraction. While the poll has little over a hundred respondents at this time, the results suggest that many men keep their attraction to transwomen under wraps. When asked “Do you share your attraction to transexuals with your significant other?”, most men answered “No, it’s my dirty little secret.”

See the poll & add your voice here.  It’s just a multiple choice question, I swear.

I can understand why a guy wouldn’t want to tell his partner about this attraction. In most traditional relationships, you aren’t supposed to be crushing on ANYONE else, regardless of gender labels or physiology. But what about those guys who are single, often joining dating sites to meet local transwomen, or keeping their desires restricted to porn? For these guys, is a particular attraction to transwomen their dirty little secret as well? Unfortunately, this is most likely the case. (I know it’s not true for everyone, especially many of our readers.)

As transgender equality issues finally begin to rise to the surface, I suggest that trans-attracted men come along for the ride and choose to practice more openness and acceptance. Not just acceptance and recognition of transgender rights, but acceptance of their desires. If you are actively hiding your attraction to these women who turn you on, or the lovely TS you’re chatting to online at TSmeet, you should consider that you may be part of the problem.

So c’mon… tranny chasers unite! Try visiting a trans club or bar, meet up for coffee at Starbucks with that cutie from the dating site, bring your TS girlfriend home to meet your mom! All I’m saying is that no one deserves to be treated as a secret simply because they don’t fit the current acceptable molds for gender identity. You can be on the front lines of change for the women you love!

Read: How To Cross Over From Tranny Chaser to Admirer

I’d love to discuss this more with you in the comments below. What’s your take?

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Zack simmons
6 years ago

I’m 56yrs old an most are in 20s or 30s very few in 40s and 50s it’s true that half or most are after money not to many lookin for relationship/marriage;read article about them being mistreated or some homeless I woud’nt mind being with one or as I said marring one im in selected area to they come through but don’t stay but short Time in my state an its hard to meet one when they don’t let themselves be noticed on other hand I understand why some of those sites or dating things hard get in touch with them,… Read more »

Jim Scott
Jim Scott
6 years ago

I find it very hard to meet a transgendered person. It is mainly two things, my location and my age. I live on the California Central Coast and the pickings are very slim here and hidden too. My age is 71 and most of the YOUNG ladies that I see in places to date are under 30 and not interested in someone my age. Even the play-for-pay girls are on the CCC aren’t into an older man except for the money but nothing else. I would like to find someone at least no younger than 20 years my junior to… Read more »

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