Do you find yourself attracted to trans women but lacking the confidence to pursue these beautiful ladies. Like cis women, trans women are seduced by confident men.
Confidence is a quality that is both sexy and alluring in the dating world. It shows others that you know who you are and you know what you want. Are you this person? Or are you shy and awkward, lacking self-esteem.
Much of a trans woman’s journey has been about building her confidence, being strong in knowing who she really is and moving forward towards her goals. She wants a man who is also self-aware and motivated, working on his own dreams.
Tips for Building Your Dating Confidence
Acknowledge your trans attraction. You don’t have to shout it from the rooftops, or even tell your family and friends (at least not yet), but you do have to be honest with yourself. Examine why you are a trans admirer. What is it about these women that excites you? And what kind of relationship are you looking for? It’s okay to just want a casual arrangement with a trans woman, as long as you are honest about it.
Educate yourself. Don’t expect your trans date to answer all your questions. Understand and learn on your own what some of the big trans issues women face in their everyday lives. It’s easy to find trans news articles online to keep you informed.
Practice self-growth. Knowing who you are leads to confidence, and it’s the kind of confidence that isn’t going to be mistaken for arrogance. Know where you are on your path and where you want to go. Passions and goals get you there. Trans women have spent their lives being introspective, so they are going to have little patience for someone who is living on the surface or drifting in the wind.
View every date as a learning opportunity. Maybe your first date with a trans woman was a disaster. You accidentally said the wrong thing or made a move when you shouldn’t have. We’ve all been there. Instead of being angry at her or yourself, reflect and try harder the next time. A man who not only acknowledges his mistakes, but also learns from them is a rare creature, one who all women want to spend time with.
Stay positive. It’s okay to fall into a dating rut once in awhile. It’s inevitable and happens to the best of us. The trick here is not to let yourself become jaded or sour. Women see these men on dating sites all the time. Their photos and profiles scream negativity. These guys don’t get dates with any women, believe me. If you need a dating break because you’ve recently been through the relationship wringer, do it, but be sure to get back out there before too long.
What keeps your dating confidence up?