Addi Stewart

I'm Adhimu Stewart. You may know me as Mindbender Supreme, or as hip hop journalist, promoter, and music lover Addi, singing and dancing at countless concerts in Toronto and beyond. Here and now, I'm honored to share with you the insights and discoveries that I've personally experienced over 20+ years as a polyamorous lover and now as a professional porn actor. I spread the gospel of love daily. I hope the one thing we all have in common is a desire to find our definition of "love", whether it is a person, place, or thing. Making love is heaven to me and I will share my everything with you... and would love for you to share the same joy with me.

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First Relationship with a Transgender Woman

Sometimes there just isn’t an instruction manual to new emotional levels, and a person is kinda left there, groping and grasping and

Sexy Woman with Black Hair

Transitions in Transgender Relationships

There was this one time… not at band camp. No, but I did play flute when I was a young lad… not

Man and Woman Embracing

My New Trans Polyamory Relationship

I like to refer to relationships as a garden. In polyamory, it makes so much sense and is a beautiful picture to

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Sex Parties with Cis and Transgender

Got a little What If question for the live studio audience today, and I think it’s a good one. It has a

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Attraction between Cisgender and Transgender

One thing that I keep articulating in my posts, and it’s something that I don’t see enough people saying or writing or

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Finding Out Your Hookup Is Trans after Sex

I’ve had several group sex encounters this past month (life’s been very good!) but one sexy excursion in particular had a moment

Working Relationships with Transgender Ex-Partners

Doing sex work has taught me a whole lot of things that I never in a billion years thought I would ever

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Talking Transgender with Cisgender Men

I had a potentially dangerous conversation with a very intelligent man which could have ended in a bad disagreement or even a

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The Rights and Wrongs of Trans Pronouns

There are levels to this shit. All of this shit, both the yummy shit and the ugly shit. And one level that

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Supporting Trans Women through Transition

If there is a book that details the percentage of people in societies and centuries past that were transgender or non-binary, I

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Open Yourself Up to Trans Encounters

I had an interesting erotic encounter a few weeks ago, and I felt a variety of emotions through it. There was insight

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Connections between Bisexual and Trans Men

Something interesting has been developing for little ole moi since the Pride Parade. I have an elderly lover who I met years ago