Finding Out Your Hookup Is Trans after Sex

I’ve had several group sex encounters this past month (life’s been very good!) but one sexy excursion in particular had a moment of revelation that was possibly the most Oprah Winfrey level A-Ha shock I might have had thus far in my sex life.

There are a variety of responses and reactions that people could have had to this situation. I chose the higher path of love and acceptance but wonder what you would have done if you were in the same situation.

So I found myself in a wonderful foursome with a super sexy blonde, a gorgeous brunette, and a ruggedly handsome gentleman who I did not have any intimate interactions with but whose energy was delightful and pleasant.

We were paired off in duos, exploring each other, having sexy time fun. I was on a mattress on the ground with one lady friend, and he was on the bed with the other gal doing similar naughty things.

At some point, it was decided that we all combine superpowers, and connect like sexy Voltron. It was even greater than I imagined, as myself and one lady were eating the other woman’s pussy, and he was behind her doing something kinky and cute. We were having a great time—various combinations of things were unfolding, and I was in nirvana floating in on Cloud Nine, or Cloud 69.

When it was all said and done, it wasn’t all said. I was laying down on the bed, exhausted from joy. We were all in a post-coital cuddle puddle, just talking shop and whatnot. Good times, yes.

My eyes were closed as I was listening to the ladies have a conversation:

One lady said, “Can you believe that person was transphobic? That is horrific! Especially to you. Imagine if they knew that you were…”
The other replied,”Yeah, it was unbelievable. I just didn’t even tell them.”

In that moment, I thought about the experience I’d just had and realized that she WAS possibly trans, and I didn’t even put it together! She wasn’t the first trans woman I’ve been with, goodness no, but it was the fact that I didn’t even know that she was trans until after we had sex.

This experience revealed to me that connection is the most important thing in intimacy, not perception. I was so attracted to this person that I wouldn’t have stopped for a microsecond if she had said, “Do you know I’m trans?” I know some people would… even though she absolutely “passes” for a sexy blonde woman!

Life is wonderful and sex is awesome, especially transgender foursomes!

Addi Stewart

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