The booty call can be a glorious relationship, but also one that is easy to mess up. Finding the right TS woman who is interested in such an arrangement is your first step. If it’s with someone you already know, you can add the term “friends with benefits” to the mix. I prefer my booty calls to be with acquaintances rather than friends, a little less tricky.
If you’re not interested in a serious or long-term relationship, the booty call is a perfect way to stay single but still get the satisfaction that most people want and need. It’s no-strings fun with someone who you have some familiarity.
Tips for making a booty call relationship work… and keeping it going:
1. Text and Call at the Best Time
Nights and weekends are your best bet, but it helps to know a woman’s schedule. She may work nights and be interested in early morning quickies. Find out her availability.
2. One Message Only
If you make the call and she doesn’t respond right away, leave it for another day. Multiple messages make you look desperate (and even if you are, you don’t want her to know that because it’s a turn off.) Be patient.
3. Go to Her Place
If she calls you, she should be willing to go to your place, but if it’s your reach-out, then be prepared to travel or pay for her to get to your place in a cab, especially if it’s late at night. Chivalry always wins!
4. No Drunk Dialling
No half-asleep sober woman is going to want to have sex with a guy who’s been drinking all night with his buddies. One, because it’s gross… and two, because it’s likely you won’t be able to get it up or keep it there.
5. Get Her Off
Selfish sex is never ever good. And if you want a booty call to be something regular, something you can rely on during those dry months, you’ll want her coming back for more. It’s hard for a woman to refuse a great lover.
6. Be Respectful
This may not be someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, but she is someone with feelings and deserves respect. So be a gentleman and treat her like a lady… this includes letting her stay overnight – no kick-outs after sex!
7. Be Prepared for Feelings
Even when you or a transwoman think a booty call arrangement is all you want, feelings may develop. And when it’s just you or her that is feeling something more it can be very awkward. Be straight-forward and honest if she says she’s falling for you, and if you’re beginning to like her, you should ask her out on a real date. Either way, know that it’s unlikely that this casual sex coupling is going to last when romantic feelings arise… and you’ll have to move on.
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