I experienced something once that was stunning and hard to put into words, until I was able to reflect upon it. I had no idea this physical manifestation was possible, and even though it was kind of obvious upon reflection, there’s nothing in the world that warns a person about this possibility when they have sex with a trans person.
It’s not a universal truth, as there is no such thing in sex with humans—not that I know of—and I’ve been with trans folks, women, and had oral sex with men. There obviously is always more to learn and experience with people.
I was in a hotel with a trans woman for their first sexual encounter post-op (as far as I knew, not that it mattered, but that’s what I was told). We were having a lovely time getting to know each other. I was quite surprised at their fiery sexual passion—an instant match for my own sexual energy. It wasn’t a surprise because they were trans, but because not many HUMANS period match my sexual intensity, truth be told!
I am a very passionate individual, and I don’t often find someone who accelerates intimacy as fast as I would like. Welp, here it was! We fooled around HOT and HEAVY for the cameras (we were making a sex video.) It was awesome. The people watching were very happy, but also shocked at the intensity of the situation.
There came a point when I was educated on something I’d never experienced—they moved TOO fast for my liking! I was shifted into a position I had never known, and had to slow things down for just a moment because the entire room and surroundings were unfamiliar. I needed to get my bearings.
They didn’t want to stop, though, so I did something I’d never done before—I grabbed them by the shoulders, looked them in the eyes, and said, “Slow down.” I took a breath and added, “We are going to do it . . . just in a few minutes.”
And they heard me. I had never ever had that sexual experience with a trans person, and it’s not like it’s not possible, but until it happens, you can’t really imagine it. I felt an energy shift I had never known, and I felt more feminine than ever. It was so enlightening.
After I got my mind balanced, we fucked of course, and it was hot as hell. I just never experienced the energy powers shift so quickly and so differently. It can happen with anyone and to anyone. It’s amazing to feel and see from the other angles.