If you’ve got a kinky streak, you’re probably hoping whoever you date has a kinky side of their own. Maybe you picture her in luscious latex, whipping your sorry ass until you beg her to stop.
Or maybe BDSM isn’t your thing—you’d rather see her sitting on a cake, or wearing sky-high thigh boots.
Tips to Meet Kinky Trans Women
Join niche online dating sites.
It’s hard enough to meet transgender women by chance, even if you’re in a bustling metropolis.
What are the chances that the t-girl who catches your eye will be into your kink flavor? Possible, but slim.
Dating online is far and away the best way to make that match.
You can use dating sites that are specific to your thrill, whether you’re submissive, polyamorous, into cuckoldry, or all of the above. BDSMdate.com and FindaFemDom.com are but a couple of niche sites worth checking out.
Online dating provides the best opportunity for kinky niches, meaning you’re most likely to meet women who are like minded or have similar desires.
Be Clear about What You’re Looking For
Niche sites for dating make it more likely a t-girl is looking for the same kinks you are. But online dating makes it easier to find like-minded kinky women, even if you’re on more mainstream sites or sites for trans women.
That’s because you can say in your profile what you’re looking for, and weed out mismatches when you get responses.
If you tell a girl you just met in a bar that you want to be pegged or pissed on, chances are you’ll get slapped or she’ll call the cops. But when creating a dating profile online, you have plenty of chances to indicate what kind of sexual connections you’re hoping for.
Don’t Assume She’s not Kinky
While you don’t want to make the mistake of TMI if you meet an attractive redhead on the subway, don’t make the mistake of missing out on the possibility, either.
If you assume the prim and proper looking lady who caught your eye has no sense of adventure at all, and you fail to give her your phone number, you’re probably missing out on something.
Most women have their “things,” even those who don’t identify as kinky. And lots of women want to play and explore and experiment, and it all might depend on the guy. What if YOU are that guy?
Be Open Minded and Willing to Experiment
By the same token, you might open the most doors to hot kinky sex if YOU are flexible.
Maybe she doesn’t share your exact fetish, but has her own desires. If the chemistry is right, playing HER way will expand your horizon, and she’ll probably want to reciprocate by exploring your kinks too.
Know that Kinky Women Are Everywhere
Even though it’s easiest to make a particular connection through online dating, the truth is, kinky women are everywhere.
Unlike the internet sex underground, women at the supermarket don’t wear a sign or special handkerchief advertising their proclivities. But that doesn’t mean they don’t have them.
Look around you. There are all kinds of women around you—on elevators, in libraries, in restaurants, at doctor’s offices, in cars. Trans and cis women, young and old women, your type and not your type women—THESE very women are into all kinds of kinky fun. Some are dominant, some like leather, some enjoy role play, some want to be spanked.
By getting to know a new date, you will discover unique desires and kinks. So ask her out, and see what happens!
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