Most people reading this are guys with a trans attraction. A few of you are here because you’re just curious or exploring a passing fancy, but for about three quarters of you, the attraction is equal to or greater than your attraction to cis women.
On the other hand, there are sometimes women here who enjoy or imagine lovemaking with a transgender woman. And some of you are couples. It’s not uncommon for a male-female couple to fantasize about or seek out a trans woman for a sexy unicorn dating.
If you are here with your wife or girlfriend, or here on her behalf, or if you are her hoping your man will indulge YOUR threesome fantasy with a beautiful TS vixen, below are some things you’ll want to keep in mind.
Once you’ve read the tips and are ready to look over profiles of trans unicorns together, try a trans-friendly threesome dating site like FindaThreesome.com.
What to Know about Trans Unicorn Dating
She’s not a fetish or sex object.
Guys who are trans attracted have a double whammy with their sexuality—they have to accept that their desires are as natural and beautiful as any other orientation, but they are also criticized for fetishizing trans women.
I prefer to see desire as humanizing rather than dehumanizing, but we all know that horny guys can sometimes forget about someone’s feelings. The same goes for women or couples who are seeking out a fantasy hookup.
It’s one thing to have a fetish or kink for wearing pony outfits or high heels. But if the object of your affection is a living breathing human being, remember that. Treat her with all the respect and humanity she deserves, even if, or especially if, all of you are just looking for something causal on transgender dating sites.
There ARE transgender women looking for sexy couples to hook up with or date.
That said, don’t assume transgender women don’t want the same variety of sexual encounters as anyone else. Transgender women are often bisexual or pansexual, and those who are might be looking especially for a male-female couple to play with.
Just as some cis women are seeking trans women to experiment and play with, some trans women want to get naked with adventurous couples.
You’re going to crush on her hard.
There’s often some very special chemistry between cis and trans women who make love. Beware that if you are looking for a transgender unicorn for you and your guy, you may well get spun by the new lady in your life. That’s fine. Enjoy it, but know it might be coming so you don’t topple anything by accident.
The MFT threesome might deepen your current relationship.
Sharing such profound pleasures and trusting each other with the level of intimacy required to explore her fantasies so freely often means a couple falls deeper into love. The bond between the three of you transcends the sexual encounter and glues a couple closer.
Yes, the opposite happens too. But when a threesome is driven by the woman, it is less likely to injure a relationship than the more common female acquiescing to group sex just to get the guy off her back.
Not all threesomes are casual encounters.
Hooking up with a trans unicorn can be a one night stand or a weekend thrill. But lots of couples who enjoy threesomes end up in throuples—relationships for three, or an ongoing sexual relationship with that trilogy.
You might be polyamorous and ready for that possibility, or it might surprise you and happen organically. The best threesomes in my mind are ongoing ones. The sex gets better as you all get to know each other, develop affection and bonding, and feel more comfortable together.
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