This post’s title will catch a few straight men off guard, but if you’re into trans women, you may find yourself being asked to go outside your comfort zone.
Tips for Giving Your First Blowjob
Be willing and able. Putting a tran’s woman’s cock in your mouth doesn’t mean you’re gay. She is a woman, always remember that. And if she derives pleasure from a blowjob, then that should be your focus.
Go boldly where you never have. It’s going to feel weird, especially if you’ve never had any bi-curious experiences, but hey, think of it as just another first in sexual exploration. You might even learn to love it! A lot of women don’t fantasize about anal and never think it will be something they’d like, until they try it.
Think about your turn ons. What aspects do you love about getting sucked off? Do you like foreplay with a hand, or maybe your balls squeezed at the same time a mouth is sliding up and down your shaft? It’s a safe bet to try what works on you, and proceed by responding to her body language. She may even straight up and tell you how she likes it!
Know your partner’s body. This isn’t always possible if you’re just hooking up for the first time. If you have had a few encounters, you’ll probably know a thing or two about her penis and how she responds, or doesn’t, based on where she is in her transition.
If you discover giving a blowjob is something you really can’t get into, then only date or hook up with fully transitioned women.
Trans women won’t always want a blowjob—sometimes ever. While some t-girls will be into the pleasure they feel from being given oral, many will see their penis as something they can’t wait to get rid of, and thus not want your hands or mouth anywhere near it.
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