I admit it feels a little funny giving a man tips on giving a woman a handjob. It’s not something I’ve done, but I have given many men a handjob, and dare I say they all had happy endings. That experience is what I’d like to share. Men know what it’s like to jerk off, but that’s only one penis, and it’s your own. Touching someone else’s is something else altogether.
You might be a trans admirer who is only interested in being with a woman who is post-op, had her male genitalia removed, but you may also have a trans attraction to a woman who has no plans on full surgery and who wants you to give her a handjob.
Tips for Men Giving Handjobs to Trans Women
- Know what you want and don’t want. Are you interested in having a trans woman put her dick in your ass? You need to think about sexual possibilities before you meet. She might not want to do that, but she may ask for a handjob. Even a one-night stand should be a two-way street when it comes to pleasing one another.
- Think about what you like. If it’s your first time giving a handjob, to a man or woman, think about how you like receiving one. Do you like a firm hold or a loose grasp? Do you like a little oral mixed in? What part is most sensitive? While every one of us has our unique turn-ons, this is a good place to start.
- Listen to her words and watch her body. Not everyone is super comfortable directing their partner during sex or speaking up when something isn’t quite turning their crank. Whatever she does say, take to heart. Whatever her body says, use it to guide you. Ask when in doubt.
- Give as good as you like getting. For a long time, I never offered handjobs because I thought men weren’t that interested, that they would much rather get a blowjob or intercourse. I was wrong. It seems most guys are just bored of their own hand. Since then I’ve worked long and hard on my handjob skills.
- Prepare to go all the way. Here’s another revelation: it can take a long time for a penis (other than your own) to come! Like most things sexual, it’s all very individual. You’ll likely have more compassion after giving a handjob or two for the ladies who’ve worked on you. It’s also good to note: she may just want to be played with as part of foreplay, not come in that way.
- Multitask while stroking. You have two hands, and they should both be working in tandem. That might mean caressing her hips and thighs with one as you rub her shaft with your other, or kissing her neck and lips at the same time. Women love a man who can do two or more wonderful things at once.
What tips or handjob experiences can you share? Please leave a comment!
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