You know who trans women want to spend more time with? Men who take their time and understand the value of good foreplay. As I get older, I realize that more and more men just want to reach for the cookie jar. It’s much more flattering to any woman, when a man shows interest in her entire body, exploring top to bottom. Foreplay is the best way to get a woman aroused and ready for a happy ending. Here are some tips that will not only turn a woman on, but also build anticipation for both of you.
This is how I refer to the kind of thing some of us did in high school when you never had a private place to have sex. It’s all the over-the-clothes touching and feeling that goes on before any skin shows. Women appreciate a man with patience.
If you’ve never been told you’re a great kisser, it’s time to perfect this most important skill. It really can be a make-it-or-break-it point early on in a relationship, or even hookup. I always say, a kiss at the end of a first date is the best way to determine if you have chemistry moving forward.
This is another sensual part of foreplay that seems to have fallen by the wayside, but guys, taking off a woman’s clothes will turn her on big time! It shows that you find her irresistible and can’t wait to explore the map that is her body. Start at the top and take your time.
Again, this is another way to slow down the whole wham-bam-thank-you-mam routine. Giving a massage is an easy way to stay at the top of her thoughts. Use some nice lighting with sensual body bars and oils with delicious scents.
Is oral considered foreplay? Sure… and it’s very important! Whether your trans woman is pre-op or post, you’ll want to appreciate what she does have. Being great at oral will make you stand out because this isn’t every man’s strong suit. And if you aren’t the most confident at oral, fake it until you make it. Being hesitant or unsure makes a woman feel insecure.
Are you down for all these foreplay tips? Do you have any advice to share?