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Do’s and Don’ts of Giving Your Trans Woman a Blowjob

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If you’re new to exploring the sexual side of life as a trans admirer, you probably have questions and fears about what will and won’t happen. And about how to do all the things you fantasize about.

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Some possibilities you’ve been dying to try out are more anxiety inducing than others. To blow or not to blow—that is the question!

You may be new to online dating T-girls, but you’ve been reading about transgenderism and/or exploring trans porn for awhile. You’re seeing a lot of contradictory information about some of your curiosities. Many trans women have beautiful vaginas, but if she still has, or has decided to keep, her cock, what should you do?

Blowjob Do’s and Don’ts

DON’T assume she wants one. Or that she doesn’t. Some trans women do not want a blow job. She may not want her cock touched at all. It is, after all, something that many transgendered gals want to get rid of. Her cock may not act the same way yours does—could be the hormones, and it could be that it never has. If your girlfriend doesn’t want to indulge in receiving oral, you may be disappointed or relieved. Either way, it’s up to her what she wants to do with her body.

Which means don’t assume she doesn’t want a blow job. Lots of trans women keep their penises by choice, or because they don’t have a choice.

So ask! When things are getting hot, this works: “I’ve dreamed about putting your cock in my mouth. Is that something you want too, or something I should avoid?”

DON’T worry about your first time. Everything has a first time. I was so nervous about my first blow job, and then mortified after to be told I had left bite marks. You’re actually in a better position, pardon the pun, than a teenage girl. You have a dick, so you know not to bite down!

DON’T forget—you already know how to please a woman. Assuming you’ve been with cis women and have been an attentive partner, you already know something about what you’re doing. Don’t forget that the brain is the most important sex organ, so even if your girlfriend has some features of male anatomy, that’s not important.

Caress her the way you would caress a woman, take her the way you would take a woman. Just as with a woman, don’t ask for too much or talk too vulgar until she’s sufficiently aroused. Then get dirty! Don’t jump out of the bed and into your car, or fall asleep, two seconds after you come.

DO keep in mind that she may be new to this too. It’s easy to forget that she may be quite new to giving blow jobs, too. She may have dated or been married to a woman before claiming her true identity.  She may date women as well as men. Be playful, and find out what feels best, together.

DO ask her to demonstrate. Everyone is different. If a blow job is something she wants, but you’re inexperienced, or with a new girl and not sure of how to deliver, why not ask her to show you the ropes? You’ll know soon enough whether she wants you to lick slowly or to use lots of ball play.

DO practice. Tell her you want to give her lots of pleasure, often, learning as you go. It’s a win-win situation—like you’re both winning the lottery.

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