Any self-help guru or dating advice expert will tell you that the first pillar of a successful relationship foundation is always trust. Without trust the rest of a relationship will eventually collapse in on itself because it’s hollow at the core and can’t support anything but the most shallow of romances. When you date a transexual online, trust becomes even more important.
Men and women are conditioned to give each other time to prove their intentions. Traditional relationships often start slowly and build gradually, giving each partner plenty of time to demonstrate their willingness to do the right thing and safeguard the emotions of their new other half. Alternative dating often brings far greater emotional intensity right from the start, and all too often a new love interest is expected to be completely trustworthy right from the moment the first communication begins.
With your TS lover there are likely to be no second chances, even a subtle misstep or ‘little white lie’ can be the end of the whole encounter. That’s because T-girls are conditioned to expect disappointment and are much less willing to take a leap of faith based on their own life experience.
Show up ready to hit the ground running. Expect to be open, caring, alert and present right from the get go. You’ll likely be given a fair opportunity to explore the most intimate gender-bending relationship of your life, and the rewards can be mind-blowing, but if you let it all slip through your fingers it can become a memory full of regret. Step one is making sure you can trust yourself. Do the soul-searching and personal exploration necessary to be your better self before bringing in the dynamic personality of a shemale lover or transexual beauty. You’ll be glad you got it right, and she’ll be thankful you got it right away!
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