While it’s true that most people use their phone to text rather than use it as an actual phone, hearing your lover’s voice trumps emojis every time. A peach + eggplant + explosion is cute, but someone telling you in detail how they are touching themselves and hearing them moan takes it to a different level entirely.
There are many reasons why you might want to reach out and call someone. You might be in a long-distance relationship. You might be looking to build anticipation before your next hookup. Or you might be living in a global pandemic and not quarantined with your partner.
Whatever your reason, make the most of your next sexy call with these tips in mind.
6 Phone Sex Tips for Trans Lovers
1. Call at an Appropriate Time
Although you may lose some of the spontaneity by giving a heads up, you’ll also be making sure that your lover is free and has the time for a sexy chat. Text her the day before or early in the day to ask when a good time to ring her is. You can have a sexy code word or even pretend to ask her out on a date.
2. Keep It Simple
This applies to setting up a call and the call itself. If you try to be too elaborate or raise your expectations, you may feel disappointed when things don’t go exactly as planned. If you’re counting on using a video-chat platform and the internet goes down, be prepared to communicate through the phone only.
3. Be Descriptive
Telling your lover over the phone that you’re touching yourself is great, but it could be a lot juicier with details like where exactly you’re touching and how. Are you stroking your shaft? Is she rubbing her clit, with a finger inside? Don’t be afraid to get raunchy and racy with your dirty talk.
4. Use Your Imagination
One of the beautiful things about phone sex is using your imagination. Maybe you’re not comfortable with masturbating and orgasming over the phone, but you can still spin a yarn like no other. Put those storytelling skills to good use, by creating an image that will drive your lover crazy. It doesn’t really matter who’s doing what, but how it makes you feel.
5. Play Your Part
If your lover is telling you what she’s doing, real or not, don’t let the line go dead. Ask her for more details, tell her how much it turns you on, or even make a sexy request. Phone sex is all about connection after all when it isn’t possible.
6. Provide and Accept Feedback
If this is something you see becoming part of your ongoing routine or connection, then it’s okay to dissect it a little the next time you’re chatting. Tell her again how much you enjoyed it, especially what parts really turned you on. Ask her what she liked most too. Positive feedback is encouraging and useful to keep the ball rolling.
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