Sex toys add fun, variety, and sizzle. Although the old-fashioned euphemism for them was “marital aids” it could be said that sex toys work best when your sex life is already great, rather than “helping” if it’s not. When you and your transexual girlfriend are hot and heavy in the sack, you want to be open and creative and let things get really horny!
A strap-on is a versatile sex toy that consists of two parts—a harness with a special opening, and a dildo that straps on to the harness.
There are unlimited variations to the fun that you can have with a strap-on dildo. Here are a few.
Get a good pegging.
Women use strap-ons to fuck boys. It can be a powerful turn on for a woman to take charge and be able to penetrate you.
Men have countless nerve endings in their ass, plus the magic prostate, and you’ve probably already discovered how great it is to have anal stimulation through fingers or other insertables.
Pegging is the word for a guy getting it good up the ass by a plastic cock. If you’ve always dreamed of having her fuck you, but her penis doesn’t get hard enough because of the hormones, this is the magic solution.
If she has a vagina, she might find this taboo and transgressive harness-and-dildo play a big turn on.
Please be cautious and sensitive and communicate with your partner openly: some trans women find wearing an artificial penis to penetrate you traumatizing because of gender dysphoria. While many enjoy the gender bending and playfulness of strap-ons, others are disturbed. Don’t ask for something she doesn’t want to do.
Try girl on girl.
If you’re open to group scenes, threesomes, or kink, imagine the turn-on of watching a bossy brunette strap on a dildo and fuck your t-girl slowly from behind.
If you’ve both enjoyed watching this kind of porn, consider translating it to real life for the thrill of a lifetime.
Play humiliation and domination games.
If one or both of you have a kinky side to indulge, a strap-on cock is a perfect ingredient for domination and submission play. BDSM can go full throttle when it ends in your spread-eagled ass cheeks taking a paddle and then a big dick.
She can have you down on all fours on a leash, commanding you to suck it. And you deserve it—you’ve been a bad boy.
Engage in pervy threesome fun.
A strap-on helps in a threesome when there’s only one dick in use. Everyone can get in on penetration when a strap-on dildo is handy.
Wear it yourself.
Sissy-boy play can mean your own cock isn’t big enough to please her—strap-on to the rescue!
Maybe you’re a top but want to try a variety of cock sizes on for fun.
You can fuck her while you masturbate—it’s quite a thrill to do both at the same time. And you can keep on going after your own juice is spent!
Experiment with size-training and dilation play.
She can wear it, or you can, to experiment with increasing cock size for penetration. It can be an amazing feeling to get more and more filled up.
A transgender woman who has recently had sex-reassignment surgery will need to dilate her new vagina for multiple sessions every day. This is not a sexual task in the beginning when it is very painful, but once her pussy has healed, she needs to continue the process by using it in order to keep it in top shape.
Your penis can help, and it can be fun if it’s a turn on for her to use different lengths and widths of dildos on her new va jay jay.
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