Just the Tips

Next Level Handjob Tips You Can Both Use

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The humble hand release—it’s your solo go-to, unless of course you’re uniquely flexible or always using a pussy pocket or doll.

Still, there’s something thrilling about the bare bones basics of getting a handjob. It’s quick, convenient, and reliable when time is short, but there’s no reason hand-on-cock fun shouldn’t take center stage when you have unlimited time to indulge. And if your girlfriend has a penis and enjoys being stimulated, you can perfect these tips together for next level orgasms.

His and Hers Handjob Tips

Engage in Mutual Masturbation

Masturbating each other is a fantastic way for both of you to get comfortable with touching and being touched. If you’re not sure what works best on her cock, it’s fun to follow her strokes on yours. Play a game where you follow along with whatever kinds of caresses she gives you.

Change the Scenery

The great thing about the handjob is how portable it is. When things get super heated on a park bench, on the beach, on a country drive, or anywhere else the mood strikes, it can be extremely difficult to take off both of your clothes, get into position discreetly, and fuck without offending others or getting arrested. But it’s easy to slip a hand into an open zipper. Take sex out of the bedroom, and enjoy a variety of settings with some hands-on action!

Experiment with Sensory Play

Take your time instead of rushing to the finish line so fast. Explore different strokes and rhythms, even if they don’t take you there. Consider it a detour, and enjoy the ride. Try some tactile sensations on each other, with feathers, scarves, ice cubes, or anything else you can think of that might feel interesting and sensual. Start while it’s in your pants, and don’t release it until it’s bursting through the cloth all by itself.

Love the Lube

Put a towel underneath you, and treat each other to a wet and wild experience. You might use hand cream or lube already to jerk off, but have you ever used ridiculous amounts? Enjoy the cold feeling, and squeeze abundant amounts of the slippery stuff over the shaft and balls. If you’ve never indulged in an absurd amount of lube just for the sheer gelatin joy of it, don’t miss this. It feels great to slide all five fingers all over testicles and cock in a sea of silicone or slime.

Tease with Orgasm Torture

Use your hands on yourselves, or each other, to fast track a plateau toward near-orgasm. But don’t go over that edge—build up arousal to near orgasm a few times over the course of your erotic adventure. Holding back, then climbing down from that ledge, and getting back to it over and over is one way to make an orgasm volcanic when it’s finally allowed. This is an amazing technique for anyone interested in a super-charged erotic experience.

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