Are you all about sex sans relationships? Do you have a problem with commitment? Whatever the reason you like casual sex with various women, you probably love the booty call. And many trans women enjoy them as well.
When you see men in movies texting a gal for a booty call, it always looks so easy. But there is a finesse to the action that if not developed, will have you being ghosted or hung up on. Let me share some tips that will help you be a player without being a dick.
Establish this relationship first. No, not something serious, just a casual arrangement after a few hookups. Men send booty-call type first messages on dating sites, but guess what, women need some level of trust before responding to a booty call.
Sext to test the waters. Send a cute emoji or text to grab her attention before hinting at what you have in mind. Flirty and fun is best to see if she’s in the mood. Never open with a dick pic.
Be considerate of time. Texting or calling at midnight is much more reasonable than at three in the morning, unless you just bumped into her at a club half an hour ago. Don’t even bother if you know she’s working early the next day.
Be willing to travel. If you make the call, you need to be ready to go to her place if that’s what she prefers. And if she is willing to trek over to your place, then offer to pay for a taxi or Uber. The truth is that gentlemen get laid more often.
Practice safe sex. Casual sex means that you are always prepared—have what you need at your place or in your wallet.
Keep your place hookup ready. If you love the spontaneity of booty calls, then you want to have a pad that is welcoming to the ladies at all times. Clean sheets and a clean bathroom are expected. Wine, snacks, and ambiance are extras that are appreciated.
Don’t be upset or angry if you’re rejected. Just because the hot t-girl you had a hookup with last week isn’t up for sex the next weekend, it doesn’t mean she won’t be the following. Call someone else, or get a good night’s sleep.
Keep tabs on your feelings and hers. If you have a booty-call gal that you shag on the regular, treat her with the utmost respect and know that she may develop feelings and want something more… or you might! Be honest and welcoming of all communication.
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