Porn is fantastic for arousal and masturbation. Most men will admit that some of their most recurring sexual fantasies come from porn. TS admirers often rely on trans porn for some time before they figure out or come up with the courage to join a t-girl dating site.
Now that you’ve met a trans woman who you’re having hookups with, are you thinking of acting out scenes that you’ve only seen in porn? Before you leap out of a closet dressed in leather and swinging a cat o’ nine tails, let’s go over a few tips to make things happen.
Porn Play Tips for You and Your TS Lover
- Don’t confuse TS porn for real life sex with a trans woman. Often it’s a surprise for a man in porn to find out that his lover has a dick! Your trans gal doesn’t want to feel fetishized, so cut this or any other porny ts stereotypes out.
- Use the porn you’ve watched for inspiration, not education. Your bedroom know-how should come from actual experience with real women, not what you’ve viewed actors enjoying on your laptop.
- Build arousal through foreplay. In porn everything is instantaneous—the handyman shows up and before you know it two women are on their knees giving alternative blowjobs. Not!
- Ask what kind of porn turns your lady on. Or better yet, ask her to show you. When couples share their fantasies, there’s a better chance of making them a reality.
- Watch porn together. Porn isn’t the dirty little secret it once was. We all watch it, some more than others, so why not enjoy it and get turned on together. It’s also a way to show her exactly what a fantasy looks like.
- Make your own porno. This is for the super adventurous only. Not too many people are comfortable having a sex tape of themselves, but if it works for both of you, why not? Just be sure to destroy all evidence if the relationship goes kaput.
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