Chances are, you probably watch porn by yourself for your own masturbation sessions, but did you know that sharing the experience with a lover can enhance your relationship and sex life?
Georgia, a moderator at TSmeet.com told us, “I like to watch porn with my trans girlfriend to get ideas. We scope out new positions, and even variations on activities that we already do. We also use porn to see how people take on things such as different fetishes and kinks, and see what titillates us.” Talking openly about sex and what you and your partner think is hot can make your relationship stronger. It’s a sexy experience to sit down at the computer or TV, get turned on watching a salacious video, and then do what you just saw.
Watching porn together can give you a window into your trans lover’s secret fantasies. It can be hard for people to bring up their deepest and darkest desires. Luckily, the web is full of sexy porn stars doing everything imaginable. If you can think of it, porn of it exists. A popular trans sub on BDSMdate.com, Tamara, told us, “My dom and I love watching porn to think of different punishment ideas. The worst/best one we saw was making a girl kneel on rice while sucking her master’s cock. We haven’t tried it yet but… we just bought a big bag of rice!”
You can also watch porn together to simply admire performers together. If you’re polyamorous or into swinging, it’s a nice way to get to know the type of person your partner would prefer for a group sex scenario, or the kinds of people you would both like. Maybe it was a mystery that your trans girlfriend would love to have a threesome with a cute blonde!
Another idea is to watch porn during sex, and mimic the acts being depicted on camera. This is a great way to learn how the pros give those sloppy blow jobs, among other things. Plus, haven’t you always wanted to fuck like a porn star?!
Overall, watching porn helps couples talk openly about sex and their intimate desires. It can greatly improve your sex life and your partnership’s general communication.
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