It’s said “variety is the spice of life,” and it’s also the spice of a good sex life. Even if you think you’re open and experimental in the bedroom, routine can set in. For instance, spanking and doggie style is hot and fun, but if it’s how you and your partner always end up before orgasm, it will get old. One way to keep things fresh with your lover is to vary positions, for each session or within a session. For extended periods (not quickies!) it’s best to use at least two positions. It won’t take long to discover a new lover’s favorites either. Here are three positions that me and the women I know love to be in… try them out, if you haven’t already!
1. Doggie. Women love to be on all fours because it provides a great position for deep penetration. They are also able to thrust backwards, thus controlling the movements and rhythm of the action. Men also enjoy being in the back for the beautiful view of their partner’s ass and arched back. And if you like anal, it’s the best place to be.
2. On-Top. Again, this position gives women most of the control of how fast and hard they want you in and out. And it’s another great view for men, with the intimacy of eye contact. If you’re a submissive, you’ll love a woman riding you at her own pace. And this position can be performed lying down, sitting up, frontwards or backwards – variety within variety is always a good thing.
3. 69. I can never say enough about this super sexy position. Either partner can be on top or lying face-to-face. The sideways variation is a comfortable way to enjoy longer sessions. If you and your lover both love giving and receiving oral, then this is the position for you! It’s also perfect if you enjoy analingus or anal play. Think of it as a 2-for-1 special!
What position turns you on the most? Let us know in the comments!