We all love porn! It takes us to the outer reaches of our fantasies, and makes them real for a second. Things get tricky when we conclude things about sex and dating from watching too much hot stuff.
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It’s easy to forget that in professional porn shows, the people are practiced, paid ACTORS. And in homemade porn, the people are OTHER people, and all of us are different!
What your favorite sex films get right is getting you off. Pleasure is the goal. And most of us don’t take porn too seriously.
But a problem for many transgender admirers is that porn is often the main source of information you have about the women you desire. Other men can watch Pool Party at Patty’s, but they live with, work with, and play tennis with women who aren’t Patty. Trans admirers don’t always have everyday opportunities to set the record straight.
Porn is fantasy, not reality.
In recent years, there has been lots of porn that is female or trans-woman directed or with women as the target audience. It’s fantastic that women’s desires and fantasies are being addressed and catered to.
But women’s desires may not be more noble or realistic than men’s! The redemption stories we love—how to turn a rogue into a dove with one magical night of passion—are as bunk as the idea that a man is likely to get laid and not arrested when he puts the moves on the college freshman who asks, “Would you like fries with that?”
Porn is porn is porn is porn. Don’t take it too seriously.
Beware of shame-on-you porn.
Some shemale porn, especially in its earlier days, treated trans bodies as a freak show. To keep up this narrative, the admirer had to be denigrated for being a weirdo or half a man.
There’s still a lot of condemnation and shame directed at men who love transgender women, even more so at admirers who want she cock.
The scripts often insinuate that men who desire trans women are sick. This is degrading to you and to trans women, with the assumption there is something wrong with trans bodies, and by extension, the people attracted to them.
Get your anatomy lessons elsewhere.
Some aliens landed and found a treasure trove of a cis porn series, Gaping Buttholes. They concluded that fucking a woman up the ass was as easy as pulling down her pants. They thought human men could get rock hard two seconds after an epic ejaculation, twelve times in a row.
There aren’t many options for learning about trans bodies. But don’t get your medical information from porn!
I admit the shemale stuff turns me on—the mythologizing, all those hermaphrodite god and godesses. The thought of getting rammed hard by a fat cock, while the soft skin of supple breasts brushes against my own… ooh, I’m done already.
But these videos are misleading. Women’s penises don’t really work like yours for most transgender women—the hormones change everything.
Some film companies are dedicated to showing a diverse range of trans sex experiences and fantasies. Make sure you see some of those too, but it’s a good idea to read what transgender women really say about their bodies and how they work. There are all kinds of candid voices sharing their stories if you Google the information you need.
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