Role plays with a sexual partner are a fun way to spice up the action. And you don’t need to be into the BDSM lifestyle or be a true-blue dominant or submissive to enjoy this kind of kink. If you’re just starting to explore role plays with your trans lover, you know it can sometimes be awkward. It took me a long time to find my role-playing groove, with lots of funny bumps along the way. From my experience, I’ve found there are a few things that can help to make a scene better and last longer.
3 Tips for Sexy Role Plays
1. Add accessories. Like the name suggests, you are participating in a play, playing a role. You wouldn’t go on stage without a costume, props, and accessories, right? And you don’t need to break the bank either to enhance your experience. For instance, if you’re playing the horny housewife/repair guy scene, most of your props are already in place. You might want to use a housecoat and slippers for her and a t-shirt and wrench for his part. Some role plays are spontaneous, but if you are planning ahead, creating the scene goes a long way into really allowing your imagination to roam. And depending on your kink, sex toys like floggers, vibrators, and restraints can be super fun additions to any role play.
2. Stay in character. This can be challenging, especially if you or your lover are new to kinky exploration. You’ll find yourself breaking character to discuss limits and boundaries or what you’d like to try next. Like anything, the more you practice role playing, the more natural it becomes. I often like to discuss the details after, to see how my partner felt about the scene, what he liked most and what could be added to the next time.
3. Have fun and be open. Without a sense of humor, it can be hard to let your guard down enough to explore various role plays. Of course, it also takes a compatible kinky lover to feel the kind of trust necessary to explore your fantasies and desires. I want to be turned on during a scene, but I also want to have fun acting a part, seeing what transpires. I also think it’s important for individuals to be open to their lover’s needs and wants, even if they aren’t exactly the same as one’s own. I’m up for trying just about anything, and because of this I’ve discovered many sexual turn ons that I wouldn’t have otherwise.
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What kind of role plays have you tried? Please share your tips in the comments below.