Would You Date a Former Sex Worker?
I was enjoying a follow-up date with a super hot, kind, successful, and progressive guy last fall when the subject of sex
Trans Dating
Transgender Sexuality
Forever In Flux I have been a sexual educator, porn actor, relationship journalist and overall sexy creature for about five years now
Dating Profile Fixes to Meet more Trans Women
I’ve read hundreds of men’s profiles in the past month, and see the same mistakes being made. These “mistakes” are turn offs
Unashamed Hookups with Trans Women
IT’S NOT YOU OR US, IT’S JUST ME Recently, I had a lovely but challenging experience with a trans woman. We had
Trans Pronouns and Gender Fluidity
When I first met Ankh, ze told me that a big part of accepting zim, was accepting that ze didn’t fit into
Do Trans Women Avoid Men who Admire Them?
A recurring theme in online dating conversations is how to avoid “the chaser.” Men with a particular penchant for a feature, or
When You Find Out Your Date is Trans
I met someone. Someone very unique and amazing, yay and hooray! We liked each other from the first moment we laid eyes
Loving a Trans Person and Taking on the Struggle
Trans politics is all over the news nowadays. The question of which bathroom trans people should be allowed to use is causing
Confession: Girl on Trans Girl Action!
It comes up now and again in my online dating conversations, usually when swapping fantasies and history with a new friend. Since
Transgender Pronouns: We All Learn Together
Everybody is in a state of education and re-education, whether they admit it and accept it or not. And I know I’m
Connecting Outside Your Comfort Zone
Does It Matter? Do you demand that you play with the gender of person you were socialized to play with, or would
Transgender Consent Rules: Same or Different?
There are some general societal boundaries that the “major” sexual groups practice, and these are generally maintained. But sometimes, there are transgressions and