Casual sex can be great fun for everyone, as long as you follow a few basic rules. Miscommunication is what generally fucks things up when two people hook up… one person wants this, the other that. If you’re online hoping to meet trans women for casual hookups, remember these tips to keep things from getting too serious.
Tips to Keep Your TS Hookups Casual
Express your intentions early on. It’s easy enough to avoid this uncomfortable conversation by spelling it out in your online dating profile. You won’t be judged for being honest, and besides, many t-girls are just looking for one-night fun as well.
Don’t get too personal. Sure, ask her about basics such as her work or interests, even family; but stay away from topics like her past relationships, current sexual activities, or trans issues. If she does want to talk about these things, always be a good listener, no matter if you think you’ll never see her again.
Hook up in a neutral location. It’s best to keep your home bases out of casual sex, unless you’re willing to have this person possibly drop by uninvited. It’s rare, but you just don’t know someone from chatting online… always better safe than sorry.
Keep romantic gestures to a minimum. Chivalry is great, but planning a romantic first date when your only intention is getting laid is going overboard. A woman may say all she wants is sex, but if you woo her she may get other ideas.
Bring you A-game to the bedroom. You may think this goes against keeping things casual, but I believe every hookup should be as hot as possible—why bother, otherwise! Also, finding a casual friend-with-benefits can be super awesome.
How do you keep your hookups casual? Share your tips in the comments.