Addi Stewart

I'm Adhimu Stewart. You may know me as Mindbender Supreme, or as hip hop journalist, promoter, and music lover Addi, singing and dancing at countless concerts in Toronto and beyond. Here and now, I'm honored to share with you the insights and discoveries that I've personally experienced over 20+ years as a polyamorous lover and now as a professional porn actor. I spread the gospel of love daily. I hope the one thing we all have in common is a desire to find our definition of "love", whether it is a person, place, or thing. Making love is heaven to me and I will share my everything with you... and would love for you to share the same joy with me.

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Becoming Vulnerable with Trans Women

So many questions in this sexual universe don’t have an answer. Many complicated ones, and many simple ones. When does puberty begin?

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Growing Up with Trans Attraction

Where I grew up not a single person told me anything positive, affirming or supportive about thinking, trying or talking about having

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Celebrating Intersex and the Gender Spectrum

The world is going places nobody could have ever imagined or understood, and I have to laugh at the Neil DeGrasse Tyson

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Traversing Transgender: It’s Complicated

Seriously, it’s not easy. For anyone, right? Cause I know it’s not easy for me to navigate the new world that is

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New Experiences with Transgender

Life is nothing worth waking up for if not for the possibility of having new experiences we’ve never seen, heard or known

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Respecting Boundaries when Meeting Trans Women

What are the boundaries for a transgender person? Ultimately, I suppose they are exactly the same as any other person’s: negotiable and

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Transgender Attraction Before and After Transition

I really wonder how many unknown and unacknowledged resources there are in the world that address transgender sexuality. For centuries, trans people

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My Gender Neutral Friend without Benefits

This one is going down a rabbit hole that I don’t think Hugh Hefner ever knew how to intercept adventure with. I

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Transitioning from Friends to Lovers with a Trans Woman

Sometimes it’s good to pretend we know nothing, and ask really blunt, simple questions. Here’s one: Are trans relationships more delicate than

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How and When Do You Learn about Transgender

There are certain times in life where nobody gets no damn training wheels when they try to ride the machine. There’s no

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Loving and Learning through Trans Experiences

I really love that I don’t have to exaggerate any of these details in any of the stories that I tell. The

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The Learning Curve in Trans Relationships

This one’s tough. But it’s not all fun and games and cum stains and rough play in this sex stuff. It’s emotional